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What Becomes Possible From Here

Fairy Tales, the Wounded Animal, and the Unexpected Road

Lois E. Wilkins, PhD, APRN

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There is a quiet moment in Heart of the Beast when James, an aging former Special Forces soldier, removes the prosthetic leg of Odin, his three-legged combat dog, and begins massaging the remaining limb. Both have survived war, and both carry its wounds. Yet in this moment, there is no enemy to overcome, no territory to defend, and no extraordinary act of endurance required. There is simply a man attending to an animal he loves, touching a place where something has been lost and cannot be restored.

I found myself lingering with this image long after the film had moved on. What stayed with me was not simply the tenderness of the gesture, although there was something profoundly moving about the warrior attending so carefully to the wounded animal. I began wondering whether, after years spent developing our capacities, fulfilling obligations, and accomplishing what life has asked of us, we may come to recognize another dimension of value that has been quietly developing alongside those accomplishments. James has survived circumstances requiring extraordinary courage, discipline, and endurance. Yet here he is, bending over an animal whose missing limb cannot be restored, offering something that none of those hard-won capacities can accomplish through mastery alone.

Perhaps I was especially attentive to this scene because I have begun to wonder whether we hear certain fairy tales too early in life to understand what they know. As children, we follow the adventure, the danger, the strange animals, the forest, and the promise that somewhere beyond what is familiar another world is waiting. Years later, the same tale may begin speaking about something entirely different. What once appeared to be a story about setting out into the world becomes a story about what happens when the world we have known can no longer contain the life that remains.

“The Bremen Town Musicians” has become such a tale for me because its travelers are old. The donkey has hauled sacks to the mill for years, but his strength is failing. The hunting dog can no longer run as he once did, the cat has grown old and prefers sitting by the fire to chasing mice, and the rooster discovers that his usefulness is about to end in the cooking pot. Each has reached the same disturbing realization: the world in which he has been useful no longer quite knows what to do with him.

There is something painfully contemporary about this image. We live in a culture that speaks easily about longevity and much less easily about elderhood. We are encouraged to remain active, productive, youthful, technologically current, physically strong, and socially engaged. All of these may be worthwhile, yet beneath them another message can be heard. We are to remain valuable by continuing to resemble the people we were before we became old.

The fairy tale proposes something quite different. The Bremen animals do not become young again. The donkey does not recover his strength, the dog does not regain his speed, and the cat does not suddenly become an eager hunter. Nothing suggests that their future depends upon recovering what has been lost. Instead, they leave the lives in which their value has been measured by usefulness and begin walking toward a place they have never seen.

I find this particularly compelling because elderhood seldom arrives as a single event. More often, something begins to change in our relationship to the identities we have spent decades constructing. We have worked and loved, succeeded and failed, raised families or created lives that demanded something substantial of us. We have developed capacities upon which others depended and identities through which we came to recognize ourselves. Yet another question gradually emerges. What happens when the ways we have known ourselves are no longer the only ways life asks to be lived?

James enters the Alaskan wilderness carrying the identity of the warrior. He knows how to assess danger, tolerate pain, improvise, protect, and survive. These are not superficial accomplishments, nor does the film diminish them. They belong to him and have helped shape the man he has become. Yet the wilderness gradually exposes their limits, which is precisely what forests have always done in fairy tales. The familiar path disappears, night falls, and the person who has always known what to do discovers that knowing what to do may no longer be enough. Something else must be encountered, and in fairy tales that something often arrives in animal form.

The youngest son encounters a fox, a bird provides what the human being cannot find, a horse knows something its rider does not, or a creature that might easily have been ignored becomes the guide upon whom the entire outcome depends. We usually call these figures animal helpers, but I am no longer certain that “helper” is sufficient. They do not simply assist consciousness in accomplishing what consciousness has already decided to do. Sometimes the animal changes our understanding of what the task actually is.

Odin does this for James. He is wounded, as James is wounded, but he has not ceased being animal. He remains attuned to scent, sound, danger, attachment, bodily knowing, and the immediate conditions of the world around him. James possesses the knowledge of the trained warrior, while Odin belongs to a world that cannot be mastered through training alone. Yet to understand Odin only as an expression of the instinctual life would be to overlook something essential. Odin is not merely James’s instinct. He is a particular animal with whom James has established a relationship, and his missing leg belongs to him before it belongs to any interpretation we might place upon it.

This distinction matters because animals are so readily transformed into symbols of human experience that we may forget the living creature before us. The fox, horse, bird, or cat of a fairy tale may carry profound psychological meaning, but the animal remains Other. Relationship becomes possible precisely because there are two beings present rather than one being used to explain the other.

Anyone who has deeply loved an animal may recognize something of this. There are years of ordinary intimacy in such a relationship: the animal who sleeps near us, waits for us, watches our movements, recognizes the sounds that announce our coming and going, and gradually becomes woven into the unnoticed rhythms of a life. We come to know the tilt of a head, a particular sound, the place the animal chooses to sleep, the look that means something is wanted, and the subtle changes that tell us something is wrong. Over time, we discover that we have also been watched and learned.

Perhaps this is one reason the loss of a beloved animal can be so profound. We have not simply lost something we loved. We have lost another living being who inhabited our daily world and knew us within it. The animal has been present during parts of our lives that required no explanation. A dog or cat may have accompanied us through illness, grief, children leaving home, changes in work, the deaths of people we love, and the gradual movement into our own elderhood. The animal does not need our account of what has happened. It simply remains nearby, and its presence becomes part of what keeps home feeling like home.

Those of us who have lived with animals for many years also know what it means to watch them grow old. We learn to lift the creature who once jumped easily onto the bed, to notice hesitation before a staircase, to adjust feeding routines, administer medications, soften the place where an old body sleeps, and sometimes rearrange our own lives around the increasing needs of an animal who once seemed almost effortlessly beside us. In caring for the aging animal, we encounter vulnerability without abstraction. We know what it is to love a being whose body is changing and whose time with us is limited, while somewhere beneath that knowledge lies the recognition that the same is true of us.

This gives James’s tending of Odin another dimension. He is not attempting to restore the animal to what he once was. He is caring for the creature who is present before him. The literal and the symbolic do not compete. James can be tending his beloved dog while the image simultaneously opens onto the wounded body, the vulnerability of aging, and the tenderness that becomes possible when we stop demanding that what we love be made whole before we can love it.

Later, James suffers a heart attack. The man whose life has depended upon endurance finds himself confronted by a condition that strength alone cannot overcome. The heart, which has carried him through years of danger, becomes the organ that interrupts the warrior.

I do not want to reduce the literal heart to a symbol any more than I want to reduce Odin to an expression of instinct. Yet the image invites attention. James has spent much of his life knowing how to survive, while Odin seems to know something about remaining in relationship. The dog’s heart is revealed through presence, loyalty, attentiveness, and his refusal to abandon the man beside him. James, meanwhile, must encounter a vulnerability that his training cannot eliminate. The warrior who has known how to protect must also discover what it means to receive.

Perhaps this is one of the difficult invitations of elderhood. The body begins to refuse some of our commands. It tires in ways it once did not, alters its rhythms, and reminds us that we are creatures before we are accomplishments. Much of adulthood may have been spent asking the body to accommodate our plans, but later life can reverse that relationship and ask consciousness to listen to the body. This does not make illness desirable or physical diminishment meaningful in itself. It does, however, change the relationship between the will and the life that carries it.

The film introduces another figure who seems to know something about this change. Watkins, the older gold miner whom James encounters, has spent much of his life mining, work at which he became skilled and which he once loved. There is no suggestion that those years were mistaken or wasted. They belonged to him, shaped him, and required something real of him. Yet he has lived long enough to know that loving a life does not mean we must remain inside it forever.

The gold mine is an especially compelling image because a mine takes us downward. One descends beneath the visible surface and enters darkness in search of what the earth has concealed. Gold does not lie scattered along the ordinary road. It must be sought in depths where ordinary daylight cannot reach. Fairy tales know this movement well. Their treasures are often hidden underground, behind mountains, beneath water, or in places that require the traveler to leave the familiar world.

For much of life, we may imagine treasure as something to be found, acquired, produced, or brought into the light, and there are years when this outward work is entirely appropriate. Yet the image changes when the miner grows old. The question may no longer be how much more gold can be extracted from the earth, but what those years of descending into the mine have given the person who made the descent.

Watkins and James have both lived within worlds in which value was closely associated with what could be accomplished. The miner brought gold from the earth, while the warrior developed capacities that enabled him to endure circumstances few could survive. Neither life is diminished by recognizing its limits. Yet Odin introduces something neither the mine nor the battlefield can adequately measure. The animal is not loved for what can be extracted from him, accomplished through him, or restored in him. He is loved because he is Odin, a particular living being whose presence has become inseparable from James’s life.

Perhaps this is where the meaning of treasure begins to change. The years of labor, achievement, and responsibility have not been wasted, but what has become precious within us may not be identical to what we have produced. Some of it has developed quietly through relationships we could neither command nor fully anticipate.

The Bremen animals offer another unexpected image of this discovery. They set out for Bremen intending to become musicians, but they never arrive. Somewhere along the way, they discover a house, and the destination that gave them the courage to begin turns out not to be the destination they reach.

I find something wonderfully freeing in this. We may continue imagining that we know where we are going because having destinations has served us well throughout our lives. There are still books to write, things to teach, places to travel, people to love, gardens to tend, animals to care for, and work that calls to us. Elderhood need not mean withdrawal from any of these things. What may change is our relationship to destination itself. We no longer have to arrive everywhere, and we may discover something along the road that we could not have planned because the consciousness that made the original plan did not yet know enough to imagine it.

The Bremen animals find something else as well. They find one another, and what emerges from their journey is not usefulness restored but companionship. They have not recovered the capacities by which their earlier lives were measured, nor have they reached the place they imagined would give their future meaning. They have discovered a home in the company of creatures whose lives have also changed.

Perhaps this is where the fairy tale and the film meet most deeply. James remains the warrior, Odin remains the wounded combat dog, Watkins carries the years spent beneath the earth, and the donkey still knows what it means to have carried heavy burdens. None must deny the life already lived, and none must become a younger version of himself before another life can begin. What changes is not the value of their accomplishments but the understanding that accomplishment was never the only measure of a life.

I return to James bending over Odin, his hand resting gently upon the wounded limb. The years of war remain part of them both, and neither can recover what has been lost. Yet here, in a gesture that asks for no accomplishment and promises no restoration, another life is already being lived. Perhaps this is what becomes possible when the old road ends, not the discovery of another destination, but the recognition of what has been beside us all along.

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